A friend asked me a question today -
Can you fall in luv so soon? (so soon here would be something like 15-20 days of knowing each other)
I couldn't exactly answer this. But with this came another question to my mind -
What is luv?
Writing this to try to find out the answer. May be in this process of writing... or rather thinking while writing... I get some sort of an answer.
Ok, let me define luv as it means to me today. It's difficult. Rather very difficult. So, I will just write down whatever comes to my mind.
Luv is when you are happily willing to give up your identity to make a new identity with her called "US". The you and I disappear to give birth to US. Luv is to feel more happy in her joys than being sad by your sorrows. Luv is to care only about her smile. Luv is when that smile from her makes your day. Luv is when you are willing to take her shortcomings as they are. Luv is when you are willing to adjust and make the relationship work. When you are willing to let go off your own shortcomings for her joys. Luv is when you don't need to talk and still the conversation takes place. Luv is when you don't care about receiving but you only about giving. Luv is when a hug from her can take off the world's pain for you. Luv is when holding her hand you think you are the king. Luv is knowing her inside out. Luv is when she doesn't need to tell you how she is feeling, what is going on in her mind and stuff like that. You just know it. Luv is when you tell her that she is really wanted. Luv is when you don't care about getting her for your life, but you just luv her. Luv is when you are happy together. Luv is when you just want to spend more and more time with her. Luv is when you feel that number of hours in a day should be more than 24 and the number of days in a month more than 31. Luv is a feeling that you get when you come back home after seeing her. Luv is just amazing!
I don't know if I succeeded in giving luv a definition. But yes... I think I have got my answer. There's no time-limit to falling in luv. There's nothing like you-cant-fall-in-luv-before-60-days kind of thing. It's just about clicking together. If you feel you clicked together in a day, then be it. You are in luv. Congratulations! For luv is such a wonderful wonderful feeling.
Cheers!
